February 2012
Someone asked me what’s the hardest thing about a long distance relationship, I couldn’t come up with just one answer. There are many things that make LD relationships difficult, first of all not being able to see your significant other as often as you like. But in all honestly, the most difficult thing is probably just holding it all together. You’re going to get into fights and it’s like...
Lilo: It's sandwich day, every Thursday I give Pudge, the fish, a peanut butter sandwich. And today we were out of peanut butter. So I asked my sister what to give him and she said, "a tuna sandwich." I can't give Pudge tuna! Do you know what tuna is?
Teacher: Fish?
Lilo: IT'S FISH! If I give Pudge tuna, I'd be an abomination! I'm late because I had to go to the store and get peanut butter 'cause all we have is.. stinkin' tuna!
Teacher: Lilo why is this so important?
Lilo: Pudge controls the weather.
I just want to grab your face and kiss you.
I like befriending spontaneous people because they are usually down to try new things whenever and wherever. It’s a challenge for me to hang out with people that do the same routine things over and over because that cycle begins to get repetitive and dull.
They only put the effort when needed. When they feel like they’re losing you, that’s the only time they’ll actually try. You can try all you want to whip them into shape, but people usually don’t change. And if they do, it’s gradually and over a long period of time. Either you stick with them and let them work through their issues, and wait for them to become the person you want, OR...
Sometimes, someone comes into your life that...
They’re able to make you smile, laugh, and allow you to be yourself. There’s something about them that is unexplainable; and even though you’re not with them, you don’t want to let that person go.
Ignoring me.
If you don’t want to talk to me, just tell me, so then I don’t have to feel like a complete idiot trying to get your attention, and then feel hurt in the end.
I thought brb meant “be right back” not “I’m just going to say this but never come back”.
I feel like crap.
Sometimes, I feel like nobody cares about me. It feels like people secretly hate me for no certain reason. I feel like a useless, unwanted, unimportant person sometimes. I just hate it. I wish those feelings doesn’t exist.
50/50
You can’t be the one putting 75% effort and they’re giving only 25%. It has to be a 50/50 kind of thing. If they don’t seem like they want to try, then leave them. Why should you be the only one putting effort into the relationship? Why should you be the only one trying? Every relationship should always be a 50/50 kind of thing. Not you giving 75% of your love, respect, or...
Joking around with friends.
I like those people I can crack jokes on and they wont get butt hurt. Those are the best people to hang out with. Cause you guys well never get bored cause if you crack a joke about them they would crack a joke on you. It’s just fun going back and forth cracking jokes on each other. And when that is going on everyone is laughing and having a good time.
Anonymous asked: I'd like to say hi to you but you look like you want to kill me. Haha.
Was I just a toy to you? You stopped talking to me after you got bored of me. All this time, you were only just playing with my heart.
I'm not worth it.
I’m not worth anyone’s time. Everyone seems to give up on me after they can’t handle me anymore. I wish someone can keep holding on to me and won’t let me go. I just want someone who can deal with me and put up with my bullshit. Everyone gets tired of me quickly. Please, hold on to me, don’t let me go and stick with me through it all because I can’t do this alone.
I miss being in a relationship. I miss being in someones arms. I miss holding someones hand. I miss kissing someone. I miss the butterflies that I’d get in my stomach. I miss talking to someone 24/7. I miss falling asleep on the phone with someone. I miss the feeling of being sprung. I miss fighting with someone. I just miss the old days where I was in a relationship with someone I really...
III.
The thing about our generation is that we mistake passion for the yearning to succumb to society’s expectations. It’s not that we don’t know what to be passionate about; I mean there’s sports, dancing, photography, writing, fashion, you name it. It’s the reason behind why we do what we do. To be passionate about something is to do it for the nature of the act itself, not for what we achieve...
When you have so much to say,
but you know you can’t say it. So many feelings, so many words… But it would cause so many problems. More fights, more unhappiness, just all trouble. There’s just some situations where you have so much to say, you can’t even put it into words. All you can do is fake a smile and pretend everything is okay.
I'm used to it.
I’m used to being cancelled on. I’m used to being left out. I’m used to being the second option. I’m used to being forgotten about. I’m used to being ignored. I’m used to getting the blame. It’s ok. So don’t feel bad if you do any of these things to me. I’ve learned to keep my expectations low, just so none of these things would matter.
Boys With Respect
It’s cute when a guy respects his family and friends. Acting really nice, caring, and loving to them. I like it when a boy actually has a good heart for once instead of seeing all of these other boys being rude/disrespectful, starting shit, cussing, and getting mad for no reason at the ones they should love. Keep in mind that girls like sweet guys, not violent guys.
anything over $1 is expensive
anything with a price is expensive
In class: oh yeah i totally get this
homework: lol what the fuck
test: lol what the fuck
report card: lol fuck
My school is overpopulated with assholes.
Here's how I function.
I don’t ask for advice, I just expect it to be there when I need it most. I don’t like being told what to do, I just like tips on how to do it. But all I need 24/7 is support. Support on whatever decision I think is “good”. Because obviously I wouldn’t pursue a bad one. If I think one of my decisions is right for me, then please have my back. That’s all I ask from a friend.
You irritate me for some reason. I’m pretty sure it’s not jealousy because I like and I’m nice to the people I’m jealous of…
I want the kind of relationship where I’m not the only one trying. Where we never get tired of each other. I’d like the kind of relationship where we talk on the phone until we fall asleep. The kind of relationship where I can introduce them to my parents, the kind of relationship where we have enough time for each other but also for our friends. The kind of relationship where we trust...
I’m far too young to be having this many regrets. I’m far too young to have felt this much.
First it was like a boss and swag.
Then it was gucci.
Now it’s yolo.
“I’ll always be here for you”, really? You’ll always be here? Where were you when I texted? Cause I know for sure that you didn’t text back. Where were you when I called? Cause you didn’t pick up. Where were you when I messaged you on Facebook even when you were online? Did you just see my message and ignore it?
Sigh, there’s no one really out there who’s willing to give their time up...
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What's wrong with a girl asking a guy first?
I’m tired of seeing guys always making the 1st move. Shit, sometimes the girl don’t even appreciate it. No, I wanna be the bigger person and step up my game and ask him 1st.
Those cute type of relationships
Sleeping on the phone
Making cute faces to each other
watching movies over the phone
Singing to each other
Webcamming
making each other smile
Joking around with each other.
Play games with each other
Go to places
Eat together
cuddle
attractive friend: holy shit i’m ugly
other friends: omfg you’re gorgeous what are you taLKING ABOUT
me: holy shit i’m ugly
other friends: nervous laughter
You're not alone.
You’re just blind, you don’t see it. Look around you, do you see all those people? They love you, they care about you. Don’t say you’re alone because you don’t realize all those people who’ve been there for you since the start. If you keep pushing everyone away from you, you won’t have anyone left. Realize what you have before it’s gone because once it’s gone you can never get it back....
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Stop giving me mixed signals.
If you don’t like me like that then act like a friend. Not some flirty dirty friend of mine. No, if you act like that I’ll fall for you. But if you end up acting like you hate me the next day then what are you trying to show me? Friendship or something more? I hate it when people give me mixed signals. I always get my hopes up but then they end up getting crushed.
I get angry easily.
I don’t know why. But I don’t get SUPER angry, it’s just easy for someone to tick me off. Especially if you say something stupid.
Pet Peeve: People that have an opinion about...
I mean, I know that you’re entitled to your own opinion, but do you really have to bring one up for everything single thing people do? Seriously, it gets really annoying and rude. You could just keep it to your self.
It sucks when jealousy is one of your terrible flaws.
I hate everything.
just stop and think for a minute
you’re so young. you don’t need to stress over bills, over being pregnant, or over if you’re in a relationship or not. take a look at yourself, you’re rushing. the faster you go to grow up, the worse the crash is going to be. just stop and take a snap shot of your life. like i said, you’re still young so slow it down.
I still like you.
There will always be a little part of me that’s going to have feelings towards you. Whether we’re together or not, I’ll still get butterflies whenever I see you. Whether these feelings are still mutual, I’ll still care about you. Thanks for the memories you’ve given me. I know that we don’t talk that often anymore like how we used to but I just wanted you to know that I secretly miss you..
When something's wrong,
I pretend that everything is okay , even when people tell me they notice somethings bothering me . It takes awhile for me to choose if I want to talk about what happened or not . But other than that , “no , I’m ok” is all I can say . And most of the time I keep it to myself , but later on , it gets brought up again .
At the end of the day, all I want to do is talk to you and fall asleep with you.
I love when guys talk to you and they directly...
But that barely happens anymore. They also look somewhere else when they talk to you. If you’re gonna talk to me, at least look at me.
My life's not perfect.
I have a lot going on, things are just bad. I’ve been thinking and thinking a lot lately. I smile, because I want myself to be happy. I hide so many things behind a smile. It’s hard for me to smile now a days. If you knew what I was going through you’d understand. Everyday everything just roams through my mind. It affects me so much, it’s just slowly killing me inside. If you know me,...
R.I.P. to all the virginities that will be lost on...